DO YOU KNOW THAT EVERYONE CARRIES A MIRROR IN THEIR FACE?

Most of the time in life I repent for hours and hours even for single mistake I did. Yesterday it so happened that i was talking to someone dear to me and for no reason I started shouting at that individual. I have never behaved like this and I am in train moving towards Chennai. I am still pondering on it. It rarely happens in my life that I hurt someone. I was looking for reasons how I should avoid this nature. To avoid this I should fine exactly what’s the reason for this and analyse. Mind is like a vessel with limited capacity made of glass. It gets overloaded when more and more are packed into it and gets over heated when stress levels go up.

When stress levels peaks up the steel vessel has to be cooled down immediately or it looks for an outlet for cooling it. It’s where the problem starts and it’s in the same place the solution also lies.

When it gets overheated we have to go with the fact that it needs an outlet. So the solution can be obtained by mulling over these questions.

Can we stop overheating?

Can we minimise over heating?

Can we create an outlet for overheating?

In most of the cases we can’t stop over heating because it’s not in our hands we are the vessel is subjected to unavoidable exposure to heat. By work or by superiors. Let’s not ponder much on that factor and let’s go the next. Can it be minimised. If I have to answer this yes. The inspiration I got is what the title of this article. I will try to explain this with a story which I read recently.

A happy dog entered into bungalow which is completely made of glass and when it went inside it got reflected and it saw many other happy dogs of its own kind and it enjoyed it. After some time a mad dog with full temper entered the same place and it found so many dogs started fighting with them and start hitting the glasses and injured and died.

Most of the time people around us are reflection of our character. It can be even boss or subordinate in an organisation. When we try to change our exposure to outside the outside changes in tandem to our expectations.

This is what is stated in Robin Sharma’s “The saint, the surfer and the CEO” when he says “we only get what we give”. The highest version of this concept is the “influential leadership in organisational behaviour”. The more you show concern for people the more you get back. The more you care the universe the universe cares you.

The third way is can we find an outlet on our own. Most of the time when we are emotional the rational brain goes to rest. We can’t create an outlet by that time. So we should have an ready made outlet to cool ourself.it can even be just moving out of the situation and calling someone who you love the most .again it creates a dependency. The outlet should be within and the outlet is first “Realise that you are not normal at that time. It can be by telling to yourself any gods name or “no no I won’t get angry ya.i am a human and not an animal. It’s a situation that is dominating you and you not the situation. Rather than finding fault with individuals try to deal with issues which make them behave like that.

PRABHU.S

WHERE IS HAPPINESS?

I am not a person to sit on the open terrace with my right hand supporting my cheeks which gives a symptom of Einstein’s rebirth or wear a spectacle of size half of the eye diameter and give a symptom of analyzer but do observe simple things in life and try to understand what I can learn from that. So many times I have faced this non web Google search of all my friends, looking to find a right dictionary for finding the meaning of the word happiness.
I was also exploring this from where happiness comes for an individual. I discussed with people so many times and at the end result was it’s a perception and so it varies from people to people. I always love analyzing things and a good analyzer is a one according to me is the one who could trace the hidden commonality among the differences. I was also looking for commonality in these varying perceptions.
When I was just pondering on this issue I found it is a psychological demand –supply equation in the mind. But what’s that demand? Is that a demand for satisfaction? if so satisfaction level varies from one to other and satisfaction means itself varies from one to other.
But in most of my experiences I found people in this world one way or other long for recognition from others. When I say recognition it means recognition for every small act they do. It may be even blinking. But human mind needs someone to just say wow! That was good. Every human crave for this longing some more and some less some directly others indirectly.
When the demand goes high and supply is less the price of recognition goes up and the result is depression. But this is wonderful demand supply relation where consumer can have a say on supply of goods that is recognition.
How can we do it?

SAI PRABHU.S

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THE POWER OF SILENCE

Have you seen silent water flowing in a river.Have you seen a beautiful lamp glowing and dancing in evening breeze.Have you seen silent breeze which gives a gentle touch in evening and wakes up all our happiness and joy inside every individual.All remain calm and serene and perform their responsibilities.But also dont forget it is this silent river can turn into flood engulfing villages,dancing fire can turn into violent fire and gentle breeze into a storm.How many times in our life we would have misjudged a person by looks,dressings,communication skills etc.Remember he is also one among this silent creatures.He or she can rock the world in a very few days.I have seen so many friends in my life who i thought would never reach heights.It was my mistake out of ignorance at wrong age.It was a man slim ,lean ,mohandas gandhi turned out to be the father of our nation.He had that patience when stones where pelted at him.It was dirubai ambani who came to mumbai with one suitcase turned into reliance.It was V.G.panneerdasan who came to chennai with no money turned out to be a big group.U and me will have so many examples in our family itself.It is not that one should be great like all examples i mentioned.Even a girl who works for 1500 rs in a petrol bunk who saves money is also another abdul kalam.so,dont underestimate anyone.As we grow in life be humble.Humilty is a lift to raise in our life.Its the way to reach god.Respect others and we will get what we want.
we always get what we give.

PRABHU.S

THE WELL WHICH TURNED THE DAY UNWELL-WHAT CAN WE LEARN FROM THIS?

Its a real incident which happened in my house on 7/06/2008.i reside in a house in Tanjore owned by us.There is a common well which is common for three owners in our plot.We don't use it.But one of the person who is not the owner of it used to take water from it,it seems.We don't know about all these.That day the bucket has struck inside the well.The person who is not the owner of the well has called someone to take the bucket out.That fellow was sleeping in house.His friend called him for this job.He got down.Since it was very old well he got fainted inside and fell.He never turned back.Thats the end of his life.Then fire engine was called and body was taken.The friend who called him didn't turn back.The person who called him is also is not the owner of the well.His wife and daughters are blaming owners us and knocking our doors for the situation and cursing us.He is driver of a private vehicle.Not so much earnings from him and his family is in real problem now.Can we find reasons for what happened.He was sleeping and fate invited him.The person called just not related to well itself.Its after all a bucket which swallowed a life.My mother who first told someone to rescue is disturbed just because we are one among the common owners.We cannot frame our destiny.Certain things are predetermined.Some will argue that he should know its an old well.He should have taken precautionary steps.May be its possible.But we cant remove it.We cant change it.We can only accept it.
THE WATER IN SURFACE OF A WELL CAN NEVER SHOW THE DEPTH OF THE WELL.SO IS OUR PAST.OUR PAST EXPERIENCES ARE ONLY SURFACE VIEW.EVERYDAY WE HAVE TO AWAIT FOR MORE NEW EXPERIMENTS.WATER LEVEL MAY INCREASE BUT STILL YOU DON'T KNOW DEPTH AND YOU CAN'T KNOW IT.

PRABHU.S

DO PRAYERS HAVE REAL IMPACT?

Most of the people go to temples,churches or mosques and do prayers.Some people go to some particular specific locations and do prayers.Does these prayers have real impact.From my point of view ,Yes it has.As i said i will try to explain this based on Science and Psychology. As i always believe Hinduism is not a religion it is science (Nothing against any other religion i go to churches and i pray at mosques also).Even before astronomy talked about nine planets and Sun Hinduism named them as Navagrahas and started worshiping them.It classified positive and negative and named as Shiva(neutral) andShakthi(positive).It gave forms to all planets and and it said every individual has link with these planets and it led to astrology and horoscope.This is what Darwin's theory states and Big bang theory states.Every planet came from sun and so we are part of it.So what happens when we do prayers.Sanskrit is not a language its collection of sounds of silence.One example is "om" which is the sound of silence in any forest.What happens is when we repeat this mantras which has inner meaning which links with universe and we are becoming light and focused towards what we want.When focus is achieved without disruptions we can really achieve what we want.But there are several stages in achieving this and the ultimatum is "moksha" which when we reach we come out all worldly desires because we know we can get all ,then why struggle and curiosity to get that and we become detached.Ancient Shiva temples have tremendous frequencies which are packed in that shrine and Linga (Like atom has lots of energies packed ;Even before scientists found atom can be split One ancient Tamil poet called ovaiyar sung this in her poem (anuvai thulaithel kadalai puguti kurugatharitha kural;which mean split atom and pack seven seas into it)which has capabilities to link us with universe and so most of the temples have pyramidal structures and conical point which has several inner sense which i will explain later.(Even Egyptian pyramids are based on this) .These places will assist us in linking us with universe and help us from achieving our goals and minimize impact of evils.Some ancient churches and mosques if constructed based on these frequencies may have same power.So it has an real impact.

PRABHU.S

MY EXPERIENCE DURING THE HOLY TRIP TO VEERAMAA KALI TEMPLE

I am residing in a place called Thanjavur, in Tamil nadu, India.this place was once ruled by Cholas and it is famous for its temples, paintings, music and agriculture. The spiritual seed sowed by ancient mankind has grown into gigantic trees now and still they are being preserved. Even now every street will have at least one temple. I came to know about Veeramaa kaali when I went to Bangalore for a marriage on 23rd may. One of my co-passenger told me to go there and surrender my prayers. I am always fond of worshiping durga and Amman and immediately I became so crazy about meeting this kaali.the temple is situated in a village called perambalur, in thanjavur -pudukottai highway. On Sunday evening that is on 25th may 2008 at 5 pm I started from my house in my two wheeler. After reaching 15 kms I got severe thunder and heavy rain and it started hitting my eyes heavily and I have to stop for half an hour. I became totally soaked in rain. it was around 6 and half and I have to still travel 25 odd kms.the road is a typical village road and no amoeba can be located except few villages after every 8 kms .It was getting dark. I had a tea and asked the man how I can reach there. He said its dark already the temple may or may not be opened and it is raining too because it’s a small village. But I was not willing to give up. I kicked my bike and started and rain also kicked itself. It started again. On the way both sides no one and my vehicle stopped. Forward at least 6 kms for a village backward the same. I don’t know what to do. I prayed mother kicked again and again and vehicle started. Then after few kms again it stopped and I repeated the same and it started. it happened three times like this. Few villagers said don’t go brother. It’s very dark and not safe. I said mother I will meet your place at least even if your temple is closed. Finally when I reached there it was 8 pm and no power in that small village temple. I have to use my mobile torch to see god. It was opened and it was still raining. I looked for a paper to write my prayers. I had one bus ticket and a pen. I wrote my prayers to eliminate all evil frequencies surrounding me and destroy those evil thoughts from those peoples and not let me get those thoughts ever. I came home around 10 pm.i never thought that night i will reach home. When i came back i lost my path got into some river and all. It was amazing that my faith and determination with support of maa kaali helped me reach back safely. It was another memorable experience for me. I will be writing thanking maa kaali for my prayers. I have also prayed to erect a temple after ten years for her in the same place.This trip has completely eradicated all my negative thoughts and i got some power in my life which i came to know when i converse over friends over phone.Friends its faith and determination which started my vehicle.With the same faith and determination my Life vehicle departs towards success.

Jai maa kali

PRABHU.S

WE ARE GRATEFUL TO EVERY INDIVIDUAL AROUND US

I am sitting in my house typing this for all. I have my laptop, power connection all facilities. Who gave this to me? I am able to do this because I am supported by my parents. That may be a superficial answer. Let’s imagine a little bit more and go deep apart from surface of the earth. We have valuable diamonds,gold, valuable minerals for whom we are suppose to thank. The man who invented electricity, the man who invented PC, the man who invented even the small chip .it goes on and it’s never ending. imagine how many times when we are about to cross the road some individual would have saved our life by notifying an unseen vehicle, how many lifts by unknown person would have saved so many lives in this world. I always say to my friends in campus hostel who says I don’t like him, he is like this, and I hate him. I would give them a hypothetical situation. Imagine only you and that friend who you hate are in hostel after exams. You are not well and he helps you throughout night by taking care. Then think about your hatred what you have now. People by nature are always good. then how can one who is bad to you be good to their parents,friends.when we blame someone it means we don’t know how to see the good in him or her .happenings around you are reflection of what we are. If we can change ourselves we can see the world around us changing. I read an inspiring story of Muslim king who was in the battle field. Both emperors and warriors are standing upfront opposite to each other. It was noon time. One Muslim king got down suddenly because it was time for noon prayer, in the middle of the battle field put his sheet, did namas praying Allah without any disturbance. The other king saw this and said to himself “is this the person with whom we want to fight and capture” .he apologised and went back. Friends our youth blood so many times will say is this practically possible .all are not realties. But in my life I have see friends. There are times we can do nothing about certain things and just be patient and trust this universe. It has given me results and will give us results. It’s true. It’s possible.

Forget and forgive people who you think as enemies today or people who think you as enemies. We are grateful to them if not today we will be tomorrow.

PRABHU.S